Couponing 101-2 Misconceptions

May 17th, 2010

I know it’s be a LONG time since I’ve done my first Couponing 101 post.  I intentionally put it off for a while, but have come to the decision that it is time to continue.  If you haven’t read my first Couponing 101 post, you can go HERE to read it.

Today’s post is not primarily going to be written by me.  I found a great article about coupon misconceptions on a coupon site called WeUseCoupons that I thought was very informative and will be posting that.  I thought that it was so good that I have added it to my own coupon class!  The truth is that even in my limited time using coupons, I have heard almost every one of these “reasons” why people don’t want to try coupons.  Heck, I thought many of these reasons myself before I started.  On one hand, I do not feel at all like I need to talk anyone in to using coupons that is not interested…Whether or not you choose to use coupons is totally up to you.  It may work for your family and it may not.  And I think that my sister in law Shelley hit the nail on the head when she made the observation that when a person is coming up with reason after reason why such and such is not going to work for them, then that’s definitely a sign that they’re not ready or interested in doing it.  However, for those people who are somewhat interested in learning how to use coupons,  I thought it might be wise to address some of these misconceptions.  Just in case there are those who are interested but have these nagging things keeping them from jumping in.  In addition to this article, there was a post written by Frugal Living NW today that was on how to save money on “real” food.  You can find that article HERE.

So without further adieu, here are the top 10 coupon misconceptions.

Debunking the top 10 coupon myths

Written by “Moonflower”

via WeUseCoupons.com

I think most coupon myths get started by people who don’t understand coupons. It’s sad because it really discourages people who are looking to cut back on one of the leading household bills – your groceries. I hope that I can explain some myths that I have heard over the years and clear some things up.

Myth #1 You can’t save money if a store doesn’t double coupons.

Although the grocery stores in my area double coupons, I know several people who’s stores don’t double or even triple coupons in their area, but they manage to save just as much as everyone else. A couple of my favorite stores to shop at are CVS and Walgreens, who don’t double coupons, but have some fantastic store deals. Often times I find I save more at those stores who don’t double coupons than the stores that do.

Myth #2 Coupons are only for unhealthy, processed, junk food.

There are just as many coupons for good healthy foods as there is for processed foods. Yoplait and Dannon put out coupons regularly for yogurt. You want salad? Dole and Fresh Express love to help you save $1 on bagged salad and Kraft, Ken’s and Paul Newman would never let you go with out dressing for your salad. I personally like stocking up on the frozen veggies rather than canned (which have more salt) and Birds Eye and Green Giant seem more than happy to help you do so. Tyson and Perdue even help you save money on fresh chicken. There are so many other coupons for foods, which I believe are healthy, like good whole grain breads, peanut butter, 100% juices, along with protein and nutrition bars and drinks. Remember, just because your using coupons, you still choose what you eat.

Myth #3 Coupons are for poor people.

Actually, statistics show that middle aged, middle class people who have some sort of collage background are the most likely to use coupons. In fact, people who make below $25,000 are the least likely to use coupons. Even so, when was it such a bad embarrassing thing to save money?

Myth #4 Shopping at discount stores will save you money.

It’s been my experience; stores like Family Dollar and Dollar General are just as expensive as other stores. The difference in them is they don’t have the store deals and sales like other stores. As far as true dollar stores (where everything is a dollar), I personally stopped shopping in them when I started couponing years ago. The reason being, I couldn’t go in there without spending $40 or $50. Those dollars add up fast! Now, I do not doubt that there are some good deals to be had in there, however most of the things I found I could get cheaper or even free elsewhere.

Myth #5 Don’t clip coupons for products you won’t use.

Why not? For one, there are a lot of things I thought I would never buy or use. However, I’ve found that when a deal comes along and I end up getting the product so cheap or even free – I have no problem using most things. In addition, if your friend has a dog and you have a cat, wouldn’t it be nice to swap coupons so you both get more of what you need?

Myth #6 It’s cheaper to buy the store brand product than to buy a name brand product with a coupon.

It is true that store brand is cheaper than name brand. However, store brand is not cheaper than name brand one sale with a coupon. Most of the time I don’t even look at the store brand price cause I know with the sale and my coupons, the name brand is going to be cheaper – or at least the same. For instance, recently I went to Kroger to buy 10 jars of Peter Pan Peanut Butter that was on sale 10/$10. I had 10 $1 coupons, which allowed me to get all 10 jars free. I know that no store brand is going to be cheaper than free – so why look. That’s a silly (but true) example. A better one might be the price of my store brand bread, which is around $1.29. However, Sara Lee Soft & Smooth Bread is on sale for $1.49 and I have $1 coupons, making the bread $.49 cents each. I know there isn’t any bread cheaper than that. (Now, if you are new to coupons, I wouldn’t suggest not looking until you got familiar with your store prices.) Anyways, my point is, in my experience, store sale + coupon = cheaper than store brand.

Myth #7 It’s not worth it to shop at multiple stores.

It can be worth it to shop at multiple stores, depending on how far you have to drive. I am fortunate that the four main stores I shop at are all practically on the same block and 5 minutes from home. You do have to consider your time and gas when choosing to travel to a store for a deal, but it can be worth it if your going to get $80 worth of stuff for $20.

Myth #8 Only use coupons for products you normally buy.

I’ve been couponing for so long I don’t even know what I normally buy anymore. This is due to one of the biggest coupon strategies, which is to not be brand loyal. Usually, I find the case to be I buy products that I would never dream of paying for normally, if that makes sense. By combining store sales, coupons and rebates I get things so cheap or even free, I can’t imagine paying full price for most of the items, I buy.

Myth #9 People who use coupons spend more than people who don’t use coupons.

If you use coupons the correct way, that is, by combining sales and coupons together than you won’t spend more. However, if you are just blindly going to the store and purchasing anything and everything you have a coupon for, especially if the product is not on sale, then yes, of course going to spend more. When I am standing in line and the person in front of me is paying for their cart of groceries that come to $175 dollars for their family of four and when my turn comes, my total is $39, I really don’t see how I am spending more. In addition, I think this idea came about from an article I read awhile back stating that people who use coupons spend more on luxury items. So, people who don’t use coupons never ever buy luxury items?

Myth #10 You can’t save money by spending money.

Well, it depends on how much your spending and what your spending it on. If my store is having a sale on meat for buy one package get one free – it’s worth it to spend a little extra and stock up on meat for a while. If I go over my budget a little that month, I will make up for it in the next month’s buy not having to buy as much meat

So.. I hope I have “debunked” a few of the myths out there..

Please feel free to comment any coupon questions you may have!  I promise that I won’t take so long for the next 101 post!

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Happy Weekend to me!

May 11th, 2010

Over the weekend, I officially turned 31.  The process of getting older is not nearly so bad when your husband plans a whole weekend away for the two of you!  In fact, it actually gives you something to look forward to.  Several years ago, when Josh asked me what I wanted for my birthday, the only thing I could think of was, “A day off”.  And so we started the tradition of taking at least an entire day off for my birthday day….but this year Josh did all the planning  and scheduling of babysitters and took me away for the entire weekend!  We had so much fun!  The best part was literally just not having ANYTHING we needed to do…no set schedule, no other people to consider or take care of.  Just us!  We didn’t take a whole lot of pictures while we were gone, but I’ll share some that we did take!

On Friday, we were able to leave about 10 am because Josh had scheduled a manicure/pedicure appointment for me at about 10:30.  After my appointment, we went to the lilac garden in Woodland, Wa.  It was beautiful and this is where this picture was taken.  Next year we’ll have to go back perhaps a month or so earlier…the lilacs were fading, but still it was a beautiful place.  I love lilacs!  We then had lunch and made our way to Seattle, where we checked in to our nice hotel and then decided to do some shopping.

People always do *I think* on vacation, what they can’t normally do at home…for some parents that might mean get a whole night of sleep…but for us, we almost always get a full night of sleep, so we did the opposite.  We went to see a movie at 9:50.  We saw Date Night and both enjoyed it.  We would NEVER be able to see a movie that late normally!

Saturday was a pretty full day.  In the morning we went to Pike Street Market, because of course, you can’t go to Seattle without going to Pike Street.  We got coffee at Starbucks and breakfast at the French bakery… Yum.  We walked around for quite a while and around lunch time decided that we were not hungry but tired.  So we went back to the hotel and took a NAP!  Another thing we never get to do!  Then we went out for a late lunch and came back to the hotel where I took a bubble bath (another thing I almost never do!) and started to get ready for the Seattle Symphony.

We had it on good authority that the symphony was a black tie-ish event, so we spent a good amount of time Friday night and Saturday afternoon shopping for an outfit for both Josh and I…which of course I didn’t mind.  Josh needed to own a suit anyway for business reasons so it was a good time to purchase one.  And my dress?  I found it at Ann Taylor Loft at the mall.  Have you ever owned a dress that fit you like it was made for you?  I haven’t until now.  I spent $50 for it, which is WAY more than I normally spend on clothing, but I think it’s probably going to be worth it, having a lovely black dress that can be dressed up or down and fits me so well.  I just wish that we had some better pictures of the dress.

After the symphony, we went for dessert at the Cheesecake Factory…where we, of course had cheesecake… MMmmmmmm.

On  a side note, we were at the restaurant at about 10 pm… I kept noticing that there were a LOT of families there with really small children eating dinner at that hour.  Is that normal for a city?  It seemed so strange to me that there would be so many small children out at a restaurant at that hour…

On Sunday we had the privilage of attending Mars Hill church and seeing Mark Driscoll in person!  I have to admit to being a little star-struck.  I am (we are) huge Mark Driscoll fans.  We have watched his Peasant Princess series 5 or 6 times now and find it to be one of the best sermon series on marriage ever made.  He is such a great preacher and I just totally respect his heart and his ministry.  So since we were in his neighborhood, of course one of the things I wanted to do was to go see him in person.  I wish we would have gotten a picture of the church building…that was the most surprising thing to me.  From the outside, you would never guess that it was a church.  It looks like a large non-descript warehouse…which it probably used to be!  Very industrial looking and right in the heart of the city.  It was so strange seeing Mark preach in person rather than on video.  My biggest surprise in seeing him in person was that he had really big feet!  =)  But the music was great and so was the sermon.  My only disappointment was that we didn’t get to actually talk to him as he was nowhere to be found after or before the service.

After church we found this very cute little farmers market place.  I actually liked it even better than Pike Street!  There was vendors selling everything from antiques, to used clothes, to flowers, to food.  This photo is of me standing next to some sort of strange vehicle that was a food vendor.  It was giant and hilarious.  I’m pretty sure that they sold pork items.   But at this place, I found some super cute cowboy boots.  Which if you know me at all, you’ll know I have been looking for for quite some time!  We were having such a fun time walking around this place that we lost track of time and when we looked to see what time it was, we were late in leaving and were both sad that the time had passed so quickly.

All in all, we had a super great weekend…my only complaint was that it should have been longer!  Thank you to my awesome husband who put so much work and thought into this weekend to make sure that we did things that I would enjoy.  And thank you to all 5 babysitters who watched our kids!

A yummy and (fairly) quick family dinner

April 29th, 2010

I had about an hour last night to throw together some dinner and I decided to use a soup that has become a family favorite in the last several months.  I was thinking about how easy and yummy and healthy it is and how there might be others out there who would benefit from the recipe.  Actually, my sister in law asked me for it several weeks ago, so she can now just get it from here.  =)

This is my adaptation of the Black-Eyed Pea and Sausage Soup from the Betty Crocker Whole Grains cookbook.

2 cans black-eyed peas rinsed and drained (I use dried- it’s cheaper- I’ll talk about this more later)

12 oz smoked sausage link, quartered (I use the hilshire farms smoked sausage…when it’s on sale and I have coupons, I stock up and freeze them)

2 cups chopped carrots

4 cloves garlic, finely chopped

1 c uncooked wheat berries

2 c water

3 cans (14oz) beef broth

2 cups spinach

1 tsp thyme

bay leaf or two if you want

1 tsp (to taste) tabasco sauce

salt and pepper to taste

Option #1 Throw all this into the crockpot in the morning and cook all day- for this method, I would put the black eyed peas and wheat berries in a pot and boil them for about an hour and then drain and add to crockpot.

Option #2 if you’re in a hurry, add everything into a large pot on the stove. Even the dried peas.  Bring to a boil.  Simmer for about 1 hour.  The wheat berries will still have a nice little crunch to them, but if you boil for a little longer, they should soften…but I kinda like them crunchy.

The amazing thing about this soup is that EVERY single person in my family likes this soup and eats it without complaining.  And even though it looks a little “scary” healthy, everyone that I’ve made it for has loved it.

This is nicely paired with my recipe for Cheese and Garlic Drop Biscuits

2 c flour

1 tsp salt

2 1/2 tsp baking powder

1/3 c oil

2/3 c milk

1 c shredded cheddar cheese

Mix dry ingredients together, add milk and oil and stir together- dough will be sticky. If you use whole wheat pastry flour like I do, you may want to add a little less of the wet ingredients.  Stir in shredded cheese.

Drop by spoonful onto a cookie sheet.  Bake about 10 min @ 450.

While the biscuits are baking, melt 1/2 a stick of butter.  Add 1/2 tsp each of garlic salt and garlic powder. Add 1 tsp of dried parsley.  When you remove the biscuits from the oven, immediately either brush the butter mixture over the tops of the biscuits with a pastry brush- or spoon over the top of each.  The butter will soak into the biscuit.   Eat them warm and it will be one of the best things you’ve ever eaten.  They’re similar to the bread that is served to you at Red Lobster.

Now you all know what to make for dinner!  Enjoy!

Why? Because they’re homemade Pop Tarts!

April 28th, 2010

So…On the Frugal Living facebook page today she had a link to a recipe from Smitten Kitchen for homemade poptarts.  Did you get that?  HOMEMADE POPTARTS.  I had to try them…it wasn’t even a choice.  And I have to say…they don’t taste anything like poptarts…they’re WAY better.  They are more like little square pies with heaven in the middle.  Serious.  So I had to share the recipe  link with you all.  Because after all, they’re homemade poptarts.

Smitten Kitchen: Homemade Pop Tarts

I will say that I did one thing different.  I used 2 cups of whole wheat pastry flour in place of the flour…and for some reason that made the dough extra sticky…I think that there’s a difference with whole wheat pastry flour and even white flour in the amounts that you need to use…but I added 1 cup of white flour and then it was fine.  And my filling?  I used about 1 TB of mini chocolate chips and then drizzled some marshmallow ice cream topping inside.  Do you all know about marshmallow ice cream topping?  It is one of the best things ever invented.  We used to get it when I was a kid and my entire adult life I’ve been looking for it and I thought they’d discontinued it.  I happened to spot it the other day inside Safeway.  I paid full price for it and everything.  But I was jumping up and down I was so excited to find it.  And yes, I will let my kids eat this (occasionally) but I made the pop tarts with whole wheat flour.  Don’t judge.

31

April 21st, 2010

In just about 2 1/2 weeks I will be hitting the big three-one.  I know…not really THAT old.  But I feel like this last year has been one filled with the biggest changes that I’ve ever had.  Not life changes such as adding children…that would have to have been the year the girls were born.  But the biggest changes I’ve ever seen within myself.  At the risk of sounding less than humble, I feel like I’ve “grown up” this year.  Josh commented the other day that he’s seen a great deal of maturity in me in recent weeks.  And it’s true!  I feel it.  I feel more “grounded” than I ever have before.  It’s definitely true what it says in James 1 about considering it “pure joy” when you face trials of many kinds-  because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance.  And perseverance must finish it’s work so that you may be mature and complete.  I’m paraphrasing a bit. 

 This year has been filled with the most conflict that I can ever remember in my whole life.  Conflict within our marriage, against our marriage, with friends, with church members, with business associates.  You name it and we’ve probably faced some sort of conflict about it this year.  Conflict is exhausting and stressful.  I learned that when confronted with conflict and stress, I get so worked up that I throw up.  I didn’t know that until this year.  But conflict is a trial…and like the verse says, trials cause you to grow.  Fast.

At any rate, that’s not really what I meant for this post to be about…but I have been doing some contemplating in the last days about this past year and what I’ve learned and experienced and I’d like to share some of my hard earned wisdom- in case will help someone else. 

First, I’ll share my favorite and least-favorite thing about being in my 30′s. 

Least favorite:  That everything I eat now has a direct and IMMEDIATE effect on how I feel.  I can tell the minute I’ve had too much sugar, or too many carbs because I balloon up and feel like crap.  And as I get older, the more I expect that to happen…but this is new…I used to be able to eat whatever I wanted and have no worries.  But no more.  BIG bummer.

Favorite:  This year, not only have I learned better WHO I am, but I have also learned WHY I am.  And because of that I have been able to ground myself in Biblical truths that I always ‘believed’ before…but now I know.  Because I have experience them personally, which makes them more real.  Or maybe it’s the other way around.  I’m not sure.  But at any rate, I have learned who I am, and why I am and I’m okay with it.  I don’t need to apologize to anyone for who I am, or try to be one way with one person and another way with someone else.  I just am who I am.  And I’m okay with that.

So, hold on while I step onto my soapbox….There.

The big revelation that I’ve had in recent weeks is this.  It is okay (and necessary) to have strong opinions and convictions when it comes to very black and white issues.  Jesus died on the cross to save me from my sins…and I WILL fight for that fact.  That’s a life or death issue.  And there are definite black and white issues of morality and truth that stem from this.  These are things that are worth fighting for.  And dying for if necessary.

However. While acceptable and okay to have opinions in grey areas (such as parenting, homeschooling, whether or not to run away to a secluded farm and raise all your own food, etc)  I don’t believe it’s okay to be willing to “die” on those hills.  For example, there’s this whole “baby wearing” movement happening in the last few years.  Personally, I know that there are benefits to it, but I never did it.  I chose not to, because frankly, after carrying around that baby for 9 months, I just wanted to be able to put them down.  It didn’t work for me.  But I’m not going to fight with someone about how “my” parenting style is “better” than that baby wearer.  It’s not better- it’s different.  And if you want to wear your baby around the house all day, then fine.  Do it!  If it works for you and your family then do it.  Just as long as it doesn’t cross the line to damaging your marriage in any way.  Because at that point, it DOES become a sin issue and that’s a whole different story…and at that point I may share my thoughts, because it’s crossed the line from “my opinion” to Truth.  And we’re supposed to say the Truth in love.

I guess the bottom line that I’m trying to get to is, when we bulldoze our opinions over others because we believe something, unless it’s a Truth or a sin issue, it does so much more harm than good.  For one, our opinions and philosophies can become idols to us- or they can become Truth to us.  Both of which are damaging to us AND sinful.  And it then makes us feel like we have to “convert” everyone else to our own opinions…and if they don’t “convert” then they’re sinning (in our minds).  And this is SO harmful!  To ourselves as well as to all the people around us.  I have decided that whatever the hotly debated grey-area issue is, whether it be parenting, recycling, sex or politics, I am going to research both sides and make an effort to land somewhere in the middle.  Because I so don’t want my opinions to get in the way of Truth.  Either for me or for those around me.  I think it’s healthier to land in the middle.  My opinion isn’t God and I shouldn’t hold people to my standard.

So please take my advice.  Keep your opinions your opinions…and don’t make them Truth.  Because they’re not.  And if you treat them like they ARE Truth, then you are truly missing the boat.  You will be distracted from what is important…and you will be a distraction to others and likely keep them (and yourself) from seeing actual Truth and grace.  Which we all need so desperately.

I will now remove myself from my soapbox.  Thank you.

Home

April 16th, 2010

One of the blogs I regularly read is called Passionate Homemaking.  She does a lot of post on “natural” living as well as posts about being a godly wife and mother.  Anyway, she has a post today about our homes and what the focus of them should be from a Biblical perspective.  I thought it was so good that I wanted to link to it so you all could read it.  Check it out HERE.

What do you think?

Just an Example

April 15th, 2010

So, I was all set today to sit down and look through our Easter photos and do a blog about Easter.  I mentioned on facebook over the course of the previous weeks that I was making the girls their dresses for Easter.  So many people asked for pictures of the girls in their dresses so I was waiting to look at the pictures before I blogged.  And guess what??  There are NO good pictures of the girls in their dresses!  In all the busy-ness of the day, we completely overlooked getting pictures of the kids.  Oops.  The good news is, they still own the dresses… so we’ll have to put them on and stage some “Easter” pictures for everyone.  =)

So what am I blogging about then today?  Well, coupons of course!  Ha!  Just kidding…sort of.  One of the questions I get asked fairly regularly is, “Are you going to use all that food before the expiration date?”  Today I was getting ready to make some peanut butter cookies and went to the pantry for peanut butter and realized that we’re down to our last 2 small jars.  So I thought I would use that example as a practical answer to that question.  Do you remember this photo?

What I see in this photo is 18 jars of peanut butter that I spent like $4.20 on.  No, I didn’t remember that off the top of my head, I looked it up.  I posted a blog with this photo on January 12.  And now that I am remembering back, I already had a stockpile of peanut butter that I added these jars to.  Maybe 10 or more.  Granted, I did donate about 5 of these jars to our Backpack Blessing ministry at some point… because I COULD.  Which means, that in our family, we went through *at least* 25-30  jars of peanut butter in 3 months.  So now I can take that figure and make sure that the next time I am able to get a rock bottom price on peanut butter, I’ll have an idea of how much I need to buy to get through to the next sale.  I am praying for another really good deal on peanut butter in the next week or so!

Understanding coupons

March 26th, 2010

I read an interesting post yesterday about the process of a coupon.  If you’re interested in finding out more  about the actual life cycle of a coupon, as well as how they should be used go HERE.  It’s a little confusing, but helpful for anyone who questions how coupons should and can be used.

Spring

March 24th, 2010

Yesterday was such a pretty, warm day that I decided to go ahead and do my garden starts.  It was the perfect activity for the kids to help with…and since it was so nice outside, we worked on the deck, which meant that all the dirt stayed outside.  (As opposed to last year.)  I’ve been reading some blogs on gardening, so I decided to try one of the ideas I’d read about using toilet paper rolls, cutting them in circles and planting seeds inside of them…this way, once the seed grows, you can just put the whole thing into the ground and the paper will disintegrate- cool, huh? 

 

Here’s all our starting materials.

All the kids got a cup that they filled with dirt to fill the circles…

The girls were very serious about their job.

And yes, I do realize that two out of five of my children were still in pajamas….it’s Spring Break!!  =)

So here’s our “finished” product.  We planted beans, carrots and cucumber seeds.   The egg cartons were an idea that I got last year…but the idea with them is the same…when the seeds grow, I can just cut them apart and plant the whole thing since they will also disintegrate into the soil.  I actually planted my peas  a couple weeks ago and they are finally starting to poke their heads up!  Today I’m going to plant some broccoli seeds and when I can find them I want to do some sweet onions.  Oh how I love sweet onions!  After we got all the seeds onto that table and watered them, I then wrapped the table in saran wrap to make a homemade green house….it seemed to be working well yesterday.   We just don’t have the space, nor the sunlight indoors to do seed starts.  But the deck is nice and sunny.  I’ll let you know how it works!

Worth

March 20th, 2010

This morning (Saturday) I was laying in bed, having some  deep theological thoughts.  This is not something I do a lot.  But it’s Saturday and the kids are still sleeping and there’s no big hurry to get up and out of bed.  So I started thinking about a conversation that I read recently; Person A: “Am I a failure?” Person B: “No! Of course you’ve made some mistakes, we all have…but that doesn’t make you a failure.”  That was the gist of it anyway.  For some reason the answer bothered me.  I know it’s a fairly standard answer to that question so I wanted to figure out why.  I think maybe it bothered me because it’s not honest.  Isn’t screwing up, making bad choices and sinning the definition of the word, “failure”?  Doesn’t that make us ALL failures?

Hmm.

The Bible tells us that we have ALL sinned and have fallen short of the glory of God.  That means ALL.  Not just the people that see it.  Not just the people that murder or steal.  All of us.  Even the ones that the worst thing that we will ever do in our lives it to tell a lie.  Or to spread a gossip.  That means that no matter what we do, how good we try to be, how many times we do things “right” we will NEVER measure up to the goodness of God.  Never.  It means that no matter how hard we try, we essentially will always be a failure.  Sure there might be some days in our lives where we feel a measure of success…but when you really think about that, we feel success not when we compare ourselves to God, but when we compare ourselves to other people.  Always, always when comparing yourself to God, you will come up significantly short.  Kind of sobering isn’t it?  Why is that so sobering?  Why does that sound so harsh to be labeled as a failure?  No one wants to be a failure.  Why?  Because it means that we’re not good at anything.  That we’re never going to be good enough.  That we don’t measure up.  We think it  means that we’re not worth anything. 

Ew.  Does that make you feel yucky?  It kinda does me.  Until I consider the good side of being a failure.

While I wallow in my feelings of being a failure, in my inadequacy, in my inability to EVER get it right, or to measure up to God- that’s when He came for me.  Our world, our society tells us that everything good about us is definied by what we do.  Or by what we contribute.  Or by how good we are at parenting, or cooking, or how many clients we have at our job.  You name it and there is always some sort of preformance-based worth that is always hanging over our heads.  My worth is not in what I can do.  It is not in how many diapers I’ve changed, or how many ministries I’ve started or any of that.  My worth is cemented in the knowledge that I was so valuable to God that He gave everything up to come rescue me.  God puts value on me.  I don’t earn value…I can’t.  I just AM valuable.  Cause God says so.  You could strip everything away from me that I have right now.  You could take away my kids, my husband, my house, my car, my gifts, my talents.  Everything I have that defines me- everything that gives me an “identity”.  And I would still have just as much value to God as I do now.  Because that’s not what it’s about.  It’s not about what I can do….it’s about what He did.

So… Are you a failure?  Am I?  Yep.

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